When you knew.
When really was that one time when you realized that you were interested in either submitting to, or Dominating another person?
And then, how did you progress from there?
Then what…..
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For me, it was coming crossed certain art.
I had always seen more cruder works in spoof format.
But these ones really had that look to their face.
That look you get when your submissive is really finding their own moment.
And then I kinda realized that the reaction was what I had most focused on.
Had already considered A-few things.
Always had A strong sense of my self.
kinda knew in some ways.
Always bothered by weaker relationships, partners .
Felt like, something was missing.
And then it kinda hit me.
Are they even trying to get to this?
And, if not….
Then where do I go for some one like that?
Eventually I was dating off the old site.
learning, finding my mentor.
Evolving through the awkwardness of meeting both the good, and the bad.
Happily lost in my Need to manifest these things.
push them into existence.
Eventually, find that look from my submissive.
But that was it.
And it was definably then.
Those images, and something from inside me.
Just kinda knew, and was then as forever driven .
Needs what it needs.
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Hello Ken. I understood your moment completely. My moment was when young. But it changed me and my desires.
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i was a kid when i noticed, whenever i'd see someone tied up in a movie, i'd wish it was me. never knew what it wa abut until i got oldther though
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Tied up my first girl when I was 16. Spent years running from that part of me, then discovered I wasn't alone.
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I agree with all the previous comments. It was when I was younger. How I was brought up those type of things were taboo. My parents led me to believe sex and anything to do with it was for reproduction purposes only. Pathetic. If they only knew
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Im very glad that you found your way of self expression.
And I fully agree.
Some people Are just self facilitating when they act as if their was ever A rational norm.
As proof by all the different levels, types to those very norms as well.
Each just as culturally different.
As they are, as well personally so.
And there you go.
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Quite young, maybe 6 or 7. I tied up my Barbie dolls and stuck pins in their (invisible) nipples, but always pretending I was the victim, not the perp.
Didn't realize this was a real world until I got AOL! Thought it just had to be a fantasy.
Joined BDSM community in Chicago, and loved it so much!
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I was still a child when I started having fantasies about keeping girls as prisoners in underground dungeons. It wasn’t sexual at first since I wasn’t really aware of that. When I hit puberty I suddenly realised what those captive girls could be used for…
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When young and watching crime dramas and movies featuring a kidnapped damsel. Wanting to rescue her but keep her for myself a little while.
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Watching "The Electric Company" as a youngster and being so delighted that a woman as short as Rita Moreno could consistently terrify a man a tall as Morgan Freeman. I so wanted my own Marcello!
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Well, people would be more happier if they kept abusing stems units like they do shock collars.
That should also be a thing.
Also need to bring Snidely Whiplash back.
