Conflicted over D/s

I’m currently holding keys for the local guy’s Chasity, and he wants to be my slave. He’s been collared 6 times already, which sometimes makes me feel like a neophyte, and other times more discerning.

I’m part of the local kink community and have seen loving long-term partnerships become live-in and even marriage situations, but I don’t see this happening with this guy. I’m also pretty sure he doesn’t have any that either, but somehow I have it in my head that it’s The Goal™️.

I’m trying to get rid of this assumption so I can keep my head in what’s actually going on, but it’s though when it’s such a long-held assumption.

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      You need to step back and evaluate what you are getting out of the arrangement. Do you actually enjoy being his Domme? Does the thought of having a slave to 'abuse' at your whim while not being emotionally attached make you happy?

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